Another Victory for the War on Trafficking
Kerry Howley | March 19, 2007, 11:40am
In its 2005 human trafficking report, the State Department deemed the United Arab Emirates a "tier 3" country. That designation carries with it the threat of sanctions. How did 2006 work out?
Police arrested and deported 4,300 prostitutes from the United Arab Emirates last year, a police colonel said in remarks published yesterday about a normally taboo subject in the region.
Mohammed Al-Mir, who heads Dubai police human rights department, gave the figure to a seminar on people trafficking, the newspaper 7 Days reported.
Regular raids were being carried out in places thought to be frequented by prostitutes, deported women were blacklisted to prevent their return, and tourist companies bringing women into the country were checked to make sure their clients were not prostitutes.
To recap: The head of Dubai's "police human rights department," speaking at a trafficking seminar, feels that it's a good time to brag about those 4,300 working immigrants he helped boot from the country.
Two years back, I suggested that the war on trafficking had morphed into a crackdown on human mobility. Tracy Quan, speaking with rather more authority, comes to a similar conclusion here.
harp | March 20, 2007, 4:15am | #
My experience with sex therapists (my preferred term) has mostly been in Asia. Like Elmer, it's in the past for me though I had about 5 times more interactions than he did.
Unlike some of the stereo-types generally presented, most of the therapists I had involvement with were energetic, confident, and assertive. They set the rules for the bedroom and I followed them as while I was the paying customer I believe in only full consensuality in any form of sex. One woman that I met in a disco told me some of her own rules for herself - one was to work only every other day. She also liked to be pleasured and guided me in that...endeavor.
About half the women I was with seemed to enjoy the experience or they were really good at faking not only orgasm but all the signs, physical and vocal, of sexual excitement leading up to orgasm. About one third were not so good at faking it but nevertheless seemed to take pride and pleasure in their performance. I'd also agree that they seemed to like the power their attractiveness held over me. Only a few seemed not so comfortable with it or seemed bored. With those women I didn't insist on having sex - we just watched tv or chatted - but I paid the money anyway and even more, as I wasn't sure what sorts of arrangements they might have been in and I wanted to help them out if I could. Just because I liked sex with pros didn't mean I was heartless. I always acted fully consensually and was careful to pay attention to any signs of not being comfortable on their part. My ethic is that it doesn't matter so much what you do, or who you do it with, but "how" you treat the people you are with. I still follow the golden rule, even in my vices.
(btw, Neu Mexican, in some cases, some prostitutes are actually in something of a contractual relationship, though it was a process begun by their parents. Nevertheless, it is possible to buy out and many do. This is of course still quasi-slavery but is not quite as bad as those horror stories you read about of prostitutes bound to beds or not allowed to leave their boss for life. In my own case, my own engagements were in discos 90 percent of the time so I didn't have much contact with brothels though I did visit a few. I preferred the former though the latter was not unpleasant - not like the news stories. Having said all that, considering the unclear circustamces around which they operated, I decided, after a few times, not to visit a brothel again).
I'm not saying they don't exist, but I never ran into the more horrific stories that people talk about or you find in news features, movies, or various other media. I'm sure these stories do happen but I'm guessing they really aren't the norm for the industry, and they are more hidden. You only find out about them because it's always the extemist elements of something that make biggger splashes - it's like having libertarians portrayed as militia members. Secondly, when you drive something underground, the seedier sides became more apparent, and more dangerous. Just look at drug laws in America and how much safer those drugs would be if they were legalized.
Bottome line though, I'm sure as libertarians, whether socially conservative like Neu Mexican, or more libertine like myself, we can agree that prostitution should be legalized or decriminalized at the very least. That would improve health and safety for all, but especially the therapists.